Here are some helpful bdsm movies that I think will help you out during your next Femdom session.
Tip #1 – Safety First
This one is more of a rule rather than one of my femdom tips: The most important rule in any type of sex toys is safety. It is especially important in regards to something like this. The situation can become extremely dangerous depending on what type of things you are doing during your domination session. It is important that your safety word isn’t something that would be accidentally screamed out during the session or something that would be said in the scenario you are acting out. The safety word should be something simple that could be remembered under stress.
Tips #2 – Never ask for permission!
Remember that you are the one in charge. If you want to do something you do it. Whether you want to call them dirty names or have them perform the most embarrassing tasks, make them do it. The submissive person actually enjoys this. This is something they want too, so go all out. Don’t hold anything back, especially if it is something that you really want to do. Even if the submissive does begin to feel uncomfortable don’t let up (unless there is a serious risk of injury).
Tip #3 – Humiliation is the key
Your slave (or submissive partner, if you wish to call them that instead) gets off on being humiliated. So be a true bitch! Make them perform embarrassing acts. Something interesting like walking down a hotel hallway in a fishnet bodysuit and six inch stilettos, while you scream out horrible insults. The more embarrassing the task the submissive is force to do, the better. This will empower you too, helping you become a more confident dominatrix. The more confident the dominatrix is the better a dominatrix she will be.
Tip #4 – CBT
If your submissive can handle cock and ball torture (or CBT for short) I would definitely add this to your arsenal. Some men truly love getting their penis and testicles pinched, squeezed, or otherwise harmed. The most effective item to use is clothes pins. A few dozen of these little things placed on your submissive partner’s genitals and that’ll do the trick. Some other things you can use are cock rings and similar items.
Tip #5 – Remember who comes to get dominated
This is also one of the more important of the Femdom tips to keep in mind. Most of the people who come to get dominated are people who have power in their everyday lives. These people love to feel out of control, escape, and feel like the power is no longer in their hands. This can allow you to get as aggressive as you want, but at the same time there is a time and place for such things. You must be able to separate real life from fantasy.